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Learning to Live a Male Chastity Lifestyle
I never knew just how important a male chastity lifestyle was to some people until I had three different relationships end because of it. I call this my Unenlightened Period where there was no way that I was going to be involved in anything that limited my participation in and appreciation of having sex. This was a time in my life where I really thought that the only way to enjoy sex was to, well, have it! To my understanding at that time, living chastely meant that I either wasn’t going to be having sex or that I was going to have to be granted permission before that was going to happen. No way was I going to give into that way of living!
All of that was before the lifestyle was explained to me in a way that I could understand as well as see what the benefits and advantages could be in living that way. Prior to my being enlightened, I was involved in what I believed to be a very loving and amazing relationship with a gorgeous man named Erick. When I say “gorgeous” I do mean that he was so beautiful to look at that sometimes I just watched the man sleep. Weird, I know. But I was on the verge of being obsessed with this man, and naturally, I wanted to have sex with him a lot!
Feeling this way about him in no way prepared me for the day he brought up the idea of adding a chastity element to our relationship. Now, at first I assumed that he was talking about him being the one cavorting about in a chastity cage. While I wasn’t all that thrilled with doing that, I was willing to go along with it if he really wanted to wear one of those things once in a while. However, the more he talked, it became clear that he was of the notion that it would be me who would be wearing these devices and he would be the designated Key Holder. I tried to reason with him because there was just no way that I was interested in having my penis restricted any in way.
As I said before, I loved sex and chastity seemed like it would be taking that away from me. Erick kept trying to explain how it would be really exciting and a lot of other words that I would never have assigned to a chastity lifestyle. Finally, I had to just flatly refuse. He wasn’t hearing me say no in all of those other ways that I was trying to do it politely. So I had no choice. This wasn’t going to happen with me and he needed to understand that. When I did make him understand, Erick got very quiet and then asked me if that was my final say on the matter. I replied that it was.
Apparently, a male chastity lifestyle was rather important to him because the next day he packed and left. I can’t tell you how much that hurt, not to mention how much I missed having sex with him. At first, I was pretty sure that no one would ever be able to replace Erick. Admittedly, I cried for days on end. There were even times that I was sure I had made a huge mistake by refusing to even consider what he wanted. After all, if I had agreed to wear one of those chastity devices, Erick would still be with me. But I couldn’t help thinking what a waste that would be if I wasn’t able to have sex with him.
Next, there was Jared. I had moved on from the incident and was out with friends at a great club one night. There was a man that I had made eye contact with almost immediately upon walking into the club. He wasn’t as gorgeous as Erick, but he certainly wasn’t too shabby. Finally, he sent a drink over to me by the bartender. I saluted him as a way of thanking him and gave him my most seductive smile. Eventually, we started talking and we became inseparable. That relationship lasted several months and we got along wonderfully. We had so much in common and the sex was amazing.
However, it wasn’t long before the past repeated itself and Jared started talking about practicing chastity. My heart sank as he started the conversation because I already knew where it was going. What I couldn’t figure out is why did these men keep doing this to me? Was I lacking in some way that they just had to have something so diverse thrown in? I had been told that I was pretty good in bed, or anywhere else that sex happened. So why was this whole chastity thing becoming such a big deal? I couldn’t understand it and, of course, Jared was already having visions of being the Key Holder and how he would control me.
I wasn’t going to be controlled through chastity or anything else. That’s what I tried to find a nice way to say to him. In fact, I even offered to go along with his desire as long as I would be the Key Holder. Something else I found out this time around is that these guys that are all amped about playing with chastity items aren’t excited about wearing them. As much as I cared for Jared, I simply couldn’t agree to something that I knew I would hate. So, once more, I offered to play the role of Key Holder if he was totally committed to doing this, but I made it clear that it wouldn’t happen any other way.
Jared exited much the same way that Erick had. If he couldn’t live the lifestyle the way he wanted it, then he would look elsewhere and find someone that was more in tune with his desires. Out the door he went and he never looked back. This one didn’t hurt as much as Erick, but it still bummed me out for a while.
Since I’m a pretty attractive guy, it didn’t take long to find Rob. I really had high hopes for my relationship with him. He was everything that I had always wanted in a man and he seemed to feel the same way about me. It was after we had celebrated our first anniversary together when he sat me down and started talking about male chastity. This time, I totally lost my mind along with my composure.
I demanded to know why so many guys thought that locking up our most precious route to pleasure was a great idea. Most likely, I kind of scared Rob but I really was fed up. To his credit, Rob did try to explain to me what it meant to him but all I could hear was him saying the same things I had already heard twice before. He wanted me to wear a chastity device and he would keep the key and make the decisions of when I would be allowed to have sex. I told him no, no and no!
So once more, the idea of a chastity lifestyle had led to the demise of my relationship. Rob packed up and I was alone once more. I stayed that way for quite a while this time around. I wasn’t excited about risking my heart getting shattered again. Going out with friends was about all I was interested in doing. There were some one night stands in there but I was staying far away from relationships. That’s why it took so long for me to hook up with Cameron. I must give total credit to him because he really pursued me even after I kept brushing him off.
That should give you an idea of just how special Cam is. However, he, too, brought up the idea of chastity. He must have seen the look on my face because immediately he sat down beside me and took my hand. All he wanted was to talk and he was more than willing to explain what he wanted. This time I didn’t feel ambushed. Cam gently explained that he only wanted to experiment and that we could switch off being the Key Holder. He could probably see that I still wasn’t convinced so he got his laptop and turned it on.
I was a little curious as to why he would need his laptop for this discussion but I didn’t say anything. The truth is that I was very happy with Cam and that I didn’t want to lose another man due to disagreeing with a lifestyle choice. He wanted to show me some male chastity items on a mens specialty website called Koalaswim.com. At first, I was hesitant, but as he showed me the various chastity devices on this website, I started to become a bit interested in what I was seeing. These were actually rather sexy and hot looking.
I started to relax a little as Cam and I went through the various pages of chastity devices. In fact, we were starting to have fun in just reading the descriptions of what each device did as well as look at the photographs of the hot models that were wearing them. We even started bookmarking the ones we liked the best. Because of his gentleness and understanding, I was able to be more open minded about the whole experience.
Finally, I caved. As long as we were going to be switching off as to who would be the Key Holder, then I could agree to at least give it a shot. The look on Cam’s face when I said that was worth whatever might be coming. I laughed a bit and turned the laptop around so that I could see some more of the chastity items. I told him that he had to help me choose the perfect one for us to try. Then, if the experiment was successful, we would come back to Koalaswim.com and order more chastity devices.
The first device we decided to try was the Caged and Cuffed. This one is a very sexy golden device that not only looks great, but is effective without being painful. When it arrived in the mail from Koalaswim.com, I even volunteered to try it out first. That night, Cam and I took a very sexy shower together in preparation for my time in being locked away. He made sure to pay lots of attention to me and we were both very satisfied by the end of that shower. Then, we got out of the shower and toweled each other dry. He took me by the hand and we walked into our bedroom. It was time.
Cam took the Caged and Cuffed device and fitted it onto my penis. Once it was in place, he took the key and locked me in. He stood up and placed the key around a special chain that we had bought just for that purpose and put it around his neck. Leaning over, he kissed me gently on the mouth and we got into bed. I had to admit that it was a bit different trying to get comfortable laying down wearing the device, but it wasn’t a horrible experience. Cam put his arms around me from behind and we got into our favorite spooning position before going to sleep.
I have to admit to many fun experiences with the Caged and Cuff device. I do feel that it was because Cam knew how to handle things. We actually did switch around with the position of Key Holder and that made it even more fun. Eventually, we returned to the Koalaswim.com website and ordered a few more of their chastity items. Sometimes I think that if I had only known what I knew now about the chastity lifestyle, things would have been different. Of course, that meant that those other guys needed to have been more patient with me and not so demanding. That tells me that it all worked out the way it was meant to and that Cam is the man for me.
Benefits of Male Chastity
Male chastity was sort of an offshoot of the BDSM lifestyle without being as extreme. Men actually got tired of being in charge all the time. They WANTED to be controlled whether it was by their wives, girlfriends, or boyfriends. These men just wanted to sit back and be told what to do, how to do it and when to do it. This took the control away from them and they were just fine with that because it meant that they didn’t have to make any important decisions. Someone else had taken that away from them and they were quite happy about it.
After a while, just telling these types of men what to do wasn’t enough. A new way of controlling them had to be found. Then chastity came into the picture. This was an entirely new and highly effective way to keep men under control. It made all sorts of sense because, after all, what better way to control a man than through his penis? It’s especially true when it comes to telling a man when he can and can’t use his penis for pleasure. For some reason, that’s something that men who enjoy giving over control of themselves really enjoy. In fact, they like it so much that there are now devices that are created for that exact purpose.
Centuries ago, it was women that wore contraptions called chastity belts, which were meant to ensure that they would be faithful while their husbands were away fighting wars. Chastity devices are made with this same idea in mind only it’s more of a game rather than a serious undertaking. The thing is, though, that men involved in chastity games need to take the entire exercise quite seriously or it doesn’t accomplish what it’s meant to. Men that willingly wear these devices are giving over the keys that lock and unlock them over to their partners. It is the key holder that decides when the wearer of the device gets to enjoy sexual release. Taking this decision out of the man’s hands is the ultimate in control.
There are some cases of male chastity where it’s not done for pleasure and relaxation. Some men just can’t seem to keep their pants zipped when it comes to being faced with temptation. Their partners then invest in chastity devices so that they can keep their men in check. The partners, of course, carry the keys to these devices and that ensures that their men won’t be indulging in any unseemly behavior such as cheating with the first available individual that comes along.
Now, if you’re a man that wants to be able to have control taken away from you for relaxation, or if you’re with a man that can’t keep his cock in his pants to save his life, you may be curious about where to purchase high quality and effective devices. You’ll be amazed when you look online at all the websites that are set up to sell such things. However, the problem may be in finding the best of these websites to purchase your devices. The good news is that it’s not going to be so difficult, after all. You can simply go straight to koalaswim.com, which is the number one website for mens swimsuits, bikinis, thongs, and even fetish wear. In addition, some of the most innovative and affordable chastity devices for men can be found right here.
Michael David is the professional designer for koalaswim.com and he brings his more than 20 years’ experience to all of his creations that he makes available for sale on the website. He has an innate understanding of exactly what men of all walks of life want. This includes the type of devices that are preferable to the men that live this lifestyle. Michael has created some of the greatest chastity devices imaginable, and you’ll agree once you see exactly what his imagination has produced.
A couple of very important things that need to be taken into consideration are the comfort and ease of wearing these for the men that must wear their devices 24/7. The material of these devices is important just for this reason. You see, the only time devices like these are removed is when the key holder deems that it’s ok to do so. That means you’ll be doing such things as showering, swimming and peeing with your chastity device in place. It’s for this reason that you’ll need to be very particular about the device you choose. For instance, materials such as leather usually aren’t a good idea if you’re going to be wearing your device all the time. Leather has a tendency to make you sweat in that area of your body and the sweat tends to make the leather smell unpleasant. People would KNOW that you were wearing SOMETHING other than just underwear.
That’s why koalaswim.com has many chastity devices that are made out of various metals that will be safe and comfortable for you to wear all day long. Obviously, your key holder will need to permit you to remove your device on a regular basis for such things as cleaning and checking for any odd rashes. The last thing you want to have happen is to develop some sort of allergy to the device and have to head to your doctor’s office. Granted, doctors have seen everything in their line of work, but it’s still not going to be that comfortable explaining where you got that really horrible, itchy rash from. So you’ll just want to avoid that situation altogether.
Now, there are also many men that choose to practice a chastity lifestyle on their own because they don’t have partners or anyone in their lives to turn over that key to. These men still need a way to purchase chastity devices and koalaswim.com works for them, too. Of course, since they get to be their own key holders, they can pretty much choose any type of style or material they want as they can remove the device whenever they need to. It’s probably even better to be your own key holder as long you play fair. You can do things such as leave your key at home or at least in a place that you have to make an effort to reach. That will keep you from simply taking off the device whenever the mood hits you. On the other hand, if you leave it somewhere accessible, such as your car, you can always run out and get the key if needed.
Chastity devices that you’ll find on koalaswim.com are of the utmost quality. What this means for you is that any of the devices you purchase from there will not only be comfortable to wear but also safer because of the types of materials used in creating the devices. That should take quite a load off of you because you know from this website that you can choose any of the devices that you may fancy without worrying about whether or not it’s going to be overly painful to you or give you a rash.
Speaking of pain, obviously one of the things that many devices are meant to do is deliver a certain amount of pain to the men wearing them. Now, that doesn’t mean that the pain needs to be constant or even intense. The exception to the intensity rule, however, is that it’s SUPPOSED to hurt when a man wearing a chastity device attempts to get an erection. That is, after all, the entire purpose for these devices. When something excites you, for example, and your penis is responding in kind, your trusty device will kick in and prevent you from becoming fully erect. The reason the erection doesn’t make it to the full standing at attention stage is because the device is causing it to hurt the harder it becomes.
It’s for the reason of this prevention that many partners will slap a chastity device on their less than trustworthy men. The partners know that if the men are tempted in any way to be unfaithful, the device will keep that from happening. The only way that their men can cheat on them while wearing a chastity device is if the device is removed, and the device cannot be removed except by the key. Since the partners are the ones in charge of keeping the keys, it’s not likely that they’re going to hand them over so the device can be removed and the man can cheat. So, you see how that works? It’s clear why this method of keeping a man honest usually proves to be quite successful.
Surprisingly enough, there are many men in the world that begin experimenting in the chastity lifestyle as sort of a lark only to find that they truly enjoy relinquishing control. They even go so far as to buy a device and present their key holder with the key to the device as a necklace. The key is hanging from a very nice chain that’s of the same metal as the key. It’s an amazing gift because the man is telling his partner that he holds the key to the success or failure of the device he’s wearing. The key holder, usually, then wears that key all the time; even if it’s just under his shirt. This says a lot about the commitment that a couple has to each other.
Koalaswim.com understands that men committed to the lifestyle of being confined in a chastity device are very serious about their choice to live this way. That may have a lot to do with why Michael takes such pains and care with his designs for these devices. He wants the men that buy them to be able to get the full experience that each one has to offer. His devices are created with the knowledge that what they provide is vital to the men that choose them. This is something that you’ll find in each one of these items.
Something else that might surprise you and make you even more confident of buying your chastity devices from koalaswim.com is that Michael tests out each of his designs personally. It doesn’t matter whether it is bikinis, thongs, G-strings or fetish wear, he tries them all out. That’s how dedicated he is to ensuring that all of his designs are perfect. If Michael isn’t one hundred percent satisfied with a design, he starts all over with it. This is also true with chastity items. That knowledge should make you feel even better about purchasing your devices from koalaswim.com because you must know that not all designers can claim that they’ve personally tried out each and every design they come up with.
Chastity items all have the same express purpose, that being to not engage in sex. What you learn from these devices is self-discipline and control. For many men, these are two qualities that can completely change their lives. It’s not all about their partners being superior to them. In fact, most men wouldn’t even agree with that train of thought. No, when it comes to chastity devices and the men that wear them, it’s more about learning to control themselves and letting that control grant them excitement that they’ve never known once they’re allowed out of the devices to enjoy sexual release.
Working with Male Chastity Devices
One of the things that you are going to want to get used to while wearing your male chastity device is those long days in the office. Any guy out there that is interested in wearing a device like this will want to wear it for as long as possible, and that means you are going to have to wear it to work. Now, this can be quite an entertaining thing for most men, but you are going to have to get used to the way they fit before you head out that door.
Your device is going to become a bit uncomfortable for you if you wear it to work the first day you get it. Of course, if you are one of those guys that has worn these devices for a few years, then you won't have as many problems that you have to go through, but if this is your first time wearing one, then you will find that there are certain times during the day where they are unbearable. You need to be able to wear your device around the house for a few days first in order to get used to them.
I find that in purchasing new chastity devices from koalaswim.com, I need to try them out for a few hours as a way of breaking them in a bit. I could probably go ahead and just wear them all day long like I have been doing with all the other devices that I have purchased over the years, but I like to try them out before I get into a situation where I can't take them off without people noticing. That is extremely important if you are trying to keep the fact that you are wearing one a secret.
I usually plan my days off around wearing different devices that I have purchased recently. In this way, I can focus a couple of hours on one device at a time and not have to worry about how they are going to fit. I have had a few issues in the past with my device not fitting perfectly and needing constant adjustments throughout the day, depending on what I am doing. I would hate to have to go through something like that while I was at work.
There might be a few men in the world thinking that having to adjust their cock cage devices while working would be part of the fun of wearing one, but for the job I do, it would be highly noticeable and would cause a lot of questions to be raised. I feel that it would be better if I get all the kinks and adjustments done while no one was around, and the only place I can do that is at home. In this way, my secret stays safe and I don’t have to worry about losing my job if someone finds out what I am doing.
You see I am a corporate professional that tends to have a lot of meetings with personnel, and I need to make sure that my chastity device is not showing in any way. If the people that worked for me along with the higher ups found out that I was wearing something like this all the time, it would probably be the end of my career, and that isn't something that I want to have happen these days. There are probably a lot of guys out there that have jobs along the same lines that they don’t want to lose as well.
Some people just don’t understand the reasons behind wearing male chastity devices. They always think that it has something to do with S&M type sexual applications, but it doesn’t. Granted, there are a lot of guys out there that use them in bondage based sexual experiences, but that doesn’t mean all devices are used in that manner. They use handcuffs and rope in those situations as well, so does that mean every time you purchase a bit of rope you are going to be tied up and spanked by a leather clad Mistress or Master?
If more people could only come to the realization that there are other aspects to wearing chastity devices, then the guys that wear them could live happily without being forced to hide from the public view. There are times when all I want to do is run out into the street wearing nothing but my device and screaming at the top of my lungs how comfortable I am in keeping my cock in check. Of course, I would probably be arrested the second I hit the street, but it would be quite entertaining for anyone that might be there watching at that time.
But since the world is pretty much staying in the dark ages as far as things like cock cage devices are concerned, I have to keep things under wraps, and that can be a bit annoying at times. While you can walk down the street without too many people figuring out that you are wearing something like this, wearing them to work where people tend to see you every day is a bit harder to do. They tend to know the way you walk, and if you are walking funny, they will definitely pick up on this and start asking you what’s wrong.
I have had quite a few employees asking me if I was okay when I wore a new chastity device to work without breaking it in first. That is a conversation that you really don’t want to have with anyone if you can help it. I always have to come up with something about working out too much or hurting myself somehow. Of course, you have to remember which story you used if you get asked by another person on the same day and that can get overly complicated, too, if you are busy.
Wearing your device from koalaswim.com should be one of the easiest decisions you ever have to make in your life. There shouldn’t have to be any second guessing of any kind when it comes to your happiness and comfort, although that isn't always the case. Sometimes, I will sit there and wonder if I should or should not be wearing one of my devices when I head off to work. I have to figure out what it is I might have to do during the day, and whether or not I can get away with wearing it.
You see, if I am going to be in meetings all day, then I will gladly don my chastity device so that I can sit there in comfort. But if I am planning on doing a lot of travel to other offices, then I tend to forgo the effort of putting on my device because it starts to become a bit uncomfortable for me. Now this may not happen all that much with you when you are traveling, but I need to have a bit of freedom down there when I travel, and my device usually takes that freedom away.
I have also found that it is extremely important to not wear your cock cage devices if you are planning on flying anywhere. Airport security does not take kindly to guys that are wearing metal cages around their cocks when you try to pass through the screening points. It doesn’t matter how early you get to the airport for the security checks if your crotch keeps setting the alarms off all the time. You can either wait until you get back home to wear it or check it in your luggage and put it on when you get to the hotel that you are staying at.
You should also be aware that wearing your devices at certain functions can become a bit uncomfortable as well. I have had plenty of business dinners that ended up having me running into the bathroom to take my device off. There are just times when wearing something like that ends up causing more problems than it is actually worth. That doesn’t mean you can't try it out as it might be a bit different for you but, for me, I have to plan ahead in order to be comfortable enough to wear it out in public.
I have found that there are some devices that work out very well when being worn out in public, and then there are some that are fairly hard to keep concealed. You need to make sure the ones you are wearing out in public are easy for you to keep hidden unless you want everyone around you knowing what you are wearing under your clothes. Some guys don’t particularly care if anyone knows if they are wearing a device or not, but there are a lot of guys that would prefer to keep it between them and their partners.
I have found that it is important for you to have your partner help you out in choosing your male chastity devices from koalaswim.com. My partner loves to help me browse through the selections and pick out the ones that are going to suit me the best. It's almost like a bonding moment between the two of us, and we always end up with a great understanding of how each of us perceives the world around us when we do things like this. If you have a partner, you might want to consider doing the same thing so that you can strengthen your relationship.
It's not easy to admit to yourself that you need to wear chastity devices all the time. In fact, I had a very hard time coming to the realization that what I was missing most in my life was a cage that I could lock my cock up into all day long. Sometimes I wonder why it took me so long to figure out that I needed one of these devices in order to really start living my life in a way that makes me happy. Maybe you should give it a try, too.
Being happy is one of those things that a lot of guys don’t get a chance at until it's too late. If you want to see what true happiness is all about, then you really need to pick out a device from koalaswim.com. Okay, that may not give you true happiness in itself, but you are going to find that you end up with a higher self-control and more confidence in your life that will lead to true happiness later on. That is more than worth the effort you have to go through to pick out the device that will fit you best.
You could do any number of things in your life and never find the comfort that wearing a device can give to you as well. Some guys love the feel of leather seats in their new cars or a comfortable chair to watch the game in, but I prefer to have my metal cage safely concealing my cock from the world around me. To me, that is all the comfort that I actually need in order to live a content life that is stress free and happy.
When you take all of that into consideration and wear your chastity device from koalaswim.com to work, then you are getting the best possible opportunity to advance in your career like never before. Sure, hard work will make you successful, but how are you going to enjoy all that success if you aren't happy in what you are wearing? Now, if you were wearing your cock cage, then you could enjoy all that success any way you wanted and still feel as free as the day you were born. Most guys wouldn’t even consider doing something like that, but then, I am not like most guys and you probably aren't like them, either, when it comes right down to it.
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